About Me
I want to begin my message from my favourite poem by Neville Potter "WHERE HAVE I KNOWN YOU BEFORE" :
Where have I known you before?... Where did we play among galaxies bright... Laughing and dancing... creating each night... Deciding the course to then venture on out ... Love, you, space and I... Free from fear, free from doubt... Where have I known you before?... Where have I loved you before?... Was it just yesterday... Or millennia ago I kissed, touched, held and needed you so?... Your face is so different... Yet you, you’re you, just you... Still glowing and silvery bright... Wondrous dancingly bright!... I knew you the moment you entered my room... That infinite eternal night!... Where have I loved you before?... Where have I hurt you before?... Where did I hurt you so deep- so deep... To hear you say you knew me not... When you alone could save me there... And free me from that tyrant’s keep... Defender of the Vulcan worlds!... Where filled my mind with blackened sleep?... Where have I hurt you before?... Where did I lose you before?... Was it when you gave your life To save that pharaoh king... Or when our golden mothership took flight Far away from Saturn's rings?... Was it when we made the pact... Then drifted into violet space... So certain we would meet the other side... But there was no such place?... Where did I lose you before?... Where have I known you before?... The moment I saw you I knew I had found again the singer of a thousand songs That haunted every dream. The painter of the colors of my mind Reminding me of places we had been!... I’m seeing clearer now-the truth unfolds... The past all drifts away... You’re back again my dearest friend!... You never went away!...
I believe this life isn't "the only" life we live , lived ,or will live!
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One of my joys in life is to study and learn!
About what? - About everything! But ,especially, - about LIFE!
And by " LIFE" i mean not ,only, lifeless physical universe , composed of space,matter, energy and time , but that aspect of LIFE which is called Theta ! Theta and anything connected with it - good news, good sense of humour, the spirit of play , granting of beingness , admiration, cheerfulness, true romance, good literature and poetry, high toned works of art, Ethics, culture,
, stability, reason, intelligence, sanity , high levels of affinity ,reality and COMMUNICATION , respect, true LOVE, true friendship, the state of Clear and above, deep joy and happiness , high toned kind of communication, beauty , order, harmony , full honesty, knowingness, Understanding, truth, inspiration, fascination, live communication, telepathy, wisdom, greatness , persistence , 21 precepts of " The Way to Happiness" and their application ,serenity ,peace of mind , freedom from reactivity, clearness of thought, spirit of play, creative talents and abilities, an analytical mind that functions at the top , full trust , all the desirable levels and states of awareness and existence, full responsibility ,pan-determinism, the best and most desirable in ME, YOU, OTHERS and all life , true spiritual freedom...
(For more information about Theta read The Science of Survival by L.Ron Hubbard)
My primary language is Russian. My work is working with people. And it means for me two things -serving others well and competently ,and doing it in the spirit of love. I like very much to learn new things which increase my understanding -my degrees of affinity,reality and communication with myself ,others and all life , and help me to live my life at its best - being in HERE and Now - fully in Present Time , enjoy it fully , be productive, flourish and prosper, communicate ,create such "products" which are prosurvival for all eight dynamics .
The subject of spiritual freedom is fascinating subject for me.
And the states of Clear , all O.T. levels and such rundowns as Super -Power ,Cause Resurgence , L- rundowns are matters of great interest, inspiration, motivation, admiration and enthusiasm for me !
What i want to know (and be able ,fully, apply) is all that is contained in all the writings ,lectures , letters, journals and other spoken or written communications of this fascinating man -L.Ron Hubbard!
This is Why Scientology intererests me so much - it contains all the wisdom , all the answers and all true solutions about life i , always, wanted to know and know-how to reach true spiritual freedom .
It is very important for me to know about YOU - which things create the basis of our common REALITY : on which things we look and about what we feel the same; what we ,both, consider important; what our common beliefs, ideals,goals,dreams,intentions... What we ,both, consider as true, right and correct... What we,both, like and dislike. About what we are in total agreement. What we ,both , know and are certain about.What we want to contribute to each other. What ,for both of us , has great value and desirability. What our common needs, wants and dreams. What excites, interests,makes enthusiastic , fascinates,inspires, makes more alive both of us. What creates more closeness, affinity,trust, intimacy, between (and for both of ) us. Which kind of "games" , we both, like and enjoy to play , and which not. Which things in life we ,both, understand , and which ,we both, can't understand.
It will of great interest for me to get to know what you consider important on every one of your eight dynamics ! And not , in general, but in very concrete way!
So,who is this person ,the picture of whom you see above ? And do i know him, in some degree? ...Let's see! ...
He is ,completely, unconventional, true to himself , has highest ideals and goals ,authentic,adventurous, impossible,likes to be original, romantic, thinking and looking at things out of boxes, honest ,sincere, ethical, responsible, very musical , intelligent, has an excellent sense of humour, tactful , loves to communicate on deep levels of intimacy and truth , share deep ideas and feelings; aesthetic, sensitive, open-minded ,likes to communicate ,interested in sanity, health , happiness and in highest degrees of affinity,reality and communication with all aspects of life.
Able to look at things not,only, from his own point of view, but to put himself in the places of others and to look at life from their viewpoints, too, in order to become able to understand and help them better!
He enjoys good manners ,and has one's.
There are no "authorities" for him ,except his own direct observations,experiences and knowingness.
He loves aesthetic things and despises behaviours and communications that represent low toned attitude toward life and all aspects of it ...
For him,the happiness lies in communication! (high toned kind of communication)
Communication based on high ethics attitude ,agreement, high affinity, ,truth, justice, sincerity, true interest, correct aplication of communication formula and A.R.C triangle, the forth level of Exchange (as described in what L.Ron Hubbard tells about exchange)...
To be in good communication with other beings,other living things , whole universe,nature ...and,of course, good communication with himself - his highest goals,ideals and dreams; deepest needs and feelings; inner truth, wisdom and knowingness; all the talents and abilities...
If there is something he believes, it is few main things - in love, true friendships,himself , and goodness of all human beings!
He needs to admit - he ,deeply, enjoys anything that is ,truely, beautiful - enviroments, surroundings, buildings,houses, masterpieces of art, ballet, nature... Beautiful flowers,plants,animals... But, especially, he enjoys beautiful people - children, man and ,especially, beautiful women! He is very affected by anything,truely, beautiful !
In spite of this , beauty is very relative thing in his eyes! Only when the external beauty becomes completed with the inner beauty ,it becomes perfect in his eyes,mind and feelings! Every person has in him (her) inner beauty ,and when he becomes able ,fully, to express it ,it compensates for the lack of natural external beauty.
So,he seeks ,here, friends not, only, on the basis of how nice they look on the pictures, but on the basis of their true tone level ( of course , he wants to associate with the person who is located on the highest tone levels !) and their communication based on it.
For this reason,your physical looks,,what is your age ,where you live on this Earth etc. are taken into account ,but your true inner beauty is very important to him ! How honest and sincere you are. Can you be ,fully,trusted .How high is your ethics, and how high is your chronical emotional tone in which you preside,most of the time!
He thinks that relationship with woman needs to be more than, simply, romantic or physical ! Much more ! - It needs to be ,first of all, spiritual relationship,in which people share a lot of common realities . They are able to share with each other their deepest thoughts, dreams, ideals, wisdom,feelings and needs, and,actually,share ! Their relationship is realtionship of best friends ,based on full trust, honesty,sincerity , closeness and intimacy , common interests ,purposes, goals and ideals , mutual likes and dislikes, high Ethics and the spirit of play!
His favorite things to do:
To study (by reaching the full conceptual understanding of) all the works of L.Ron Hubbard and to apply in life the principles,data,axioms,formuls etc. of Scientology.
Communication is essence of life. So,for him, living full life is to communicate (two-way communication) with all 8 dynamics and to participate on all of them.
It doesn't mean he doesn't enjoys traveling, the beauty of nature,the activities of second dynamic,masterpieces of art, good music, ballroom dances,watching the classical ballet,reading good poetry etc. He enjoys them very much!
But,the main thing in life,in his opinion,is hard WORK,activities with worthwhile purposes!
And ,by this ,he means the WORK of moving toward states of Clear and above, the work toward reaching highest and most desirable states of being and Survival on all 8 dynamics...
Pleasure, happiness and survival go together! For him ,they represent condition of true friendship and intimacy , freedom from reactive mind, being Clear and O.T, wisdom, sanity, true love, good physical health, production, communication , being true to highest purposes,goals and ideals, mutual understanding and the highest Ethics.
Win -Win attitude - winning in life and helping others to do the same; being productive, creative, flourishing and prospering... It is music; communication of deep ideas and feelings, being true to highest goals, ideals and dreams, honesty and sincerity with himself and others, using his mind and talents to the maximum , treating others the way he wants others will treat him - with honesty, consideration, ,respect, high affinity ,understanding and love......
Contribute to others something valuable for them that adds to their well being, joy, happiness, health,understanding , success and better survival in life..And when others are honest and sincere with him; treat him with respect and full trust, show good manners and grant him beingness (and vice- versa)......
It is when his body,mind and senses are functioning at their optimum level...It is living his life in his own unique way in which he is true to his own observations, knowingness, deep feelings,life wisdom,abilities to think,judge,decide, and to his highest ideals and dreams...
And constantly to increase knowledge ,wisdom and understanding of life... it is making pro-survival decisions and carrying them into reality......
He loves positive create-create-create people who are very high on emotional tone scale, ethical, productive, efficient, exhibit good manners, very honest and sincere , grant beingness to others, responsible and intelligent......
His needed and wanted in life are true friends, communication, high Ethics, justice, peace of mind , joy, deep happiness ,truth, love, wisdom and UNDERSTANDING!
.Not, only,to have and experience,but to be able to bring them into the lives of others! ...
He enjoys studying and learning, good classical music, classical ballet , intimacy, understanding and spiritual closeness , heart-2-heart conversations, to exercise his creative abilities fully , to be productive, great works of art, flowers, good books and poetry, philosophical conversations, helping others in the spirit of love, honesty and sincerity with others(and vice versa), to be his best ,both,physically and spiritually, to live full life and to approach and solve its problems creatively. ...
To be in nature, closeness with the suitable member of the opposite sex, to live such life that reflects his highest dreams,principles ,beliefs, goals and ideals! ...
To communicate with others on the highest levels of honesty, sincerity,truth and trust, be competent and do work well , to grant beingness to others , treat others with respect,honesty,justice and love ( and be treaten, the same , by them )......
What is LOVE?...- For me, LOVE is deep joy and happiness i experience when i am with YOU, and near YOU ; when i perceive YOU through all my senses and other feelings, when i think about you ... And when i am saying "YOU", I mean the YOU that inhabits this body and who YOU, really,and essentially are: unique spiritual being, awareness of awareness unit, with your unique inner world, wishes,wants,needs, deep feelings and character ; beliefs , likes and dislikes, talents, abilites, thoughts,ideas, emotions, imagination, knowingness, opinions, dreams, goals, plans; abilities to perceive, remember, think, judge, understand , create, decide; sense of humour, intelligence ......
When i am with YOU , the world is brighter, life is fun , cheerful and wonderful place to be, do, play, explore, enjoy and conquer, and is full of beauty, magic , charm, fascination, joy and romance. ......
It looks like amazing game, wonderful , enjoyable and fun game! ......... An adventure ...
You make me a child again!...With YOU i become the best ME!.....
Love brings about in ME the romantic, the poet, the philosopher, an artist...!...
I don't, especially, love to watch televison ( especially,with the content of the programms presented at our "modern" times, which is very far from anything, really, spiritual,or that which ,really, enriches the soul))...
I am very selective about what i watch on it ,and prefer to watch things which enrich me mentally,emotionally or spiritually, or, at least, bring me joy and deep pleasure.... (The same is about the books i read ,conversations with others, radio, Internet ,journals and newspapers, the art works etc....
And i don't love to communicate a lot with people through the phone or Internet ( a very "fashionable" thing to do in our times!) !I prefer to it an "old fashioned" live communication !...
Live communication with others is important to me ,but i prefer such kind of it which consist of mutual sincerity, openess, high affinity, good manners, many agreements , respect, trust, honesty, good communication skills, willingness of both sides to communicate, joy and good duplication and understanding ....
I love wide spaces of nature:parks ,gardens,forests ......
People that i enjoy are people who have good manners ,have an attitude of friendliness,openess and respect for others , are highly ethical , honest, responsible ,sincere, fair, just, competent, keep,always, their word, can be dependent upon......
People who exhibit such qualities and attitudes , toward others and life, as admiration, fascination, enthusiasm,serenity, interest,inspiration, encouragement, motivation an excellent sense of humour, cheerfulness ,hope,trust, love and respect... ...
I love everything that expands the mind and make me more aware and alive , be it music , books, movies , art , people , communication , learning,conversations,thinking,special body or mental exercises etc. ......
I am unconventional, romantic, creative, very musical, open-minded , ethical , tactful, honest, sincere ,can be trusted upon ......
Life experience have teached me, that in spite of the fact that i am attracted to the tall, long-haired, good looking young women, there are, in life, things which are much more important than the external beauty! .....
I think, you understand what i mean! I mean the qualities of YOU and your inner world : your chronic emotional tone , beliefs, principles , ideals, opinions , attitudes and feelings about life, people, religion, sex, children, family etc. Your character, ethical standards and ideals , wisdom and rationality, integrity and responsibility level . .....
I enjoy to discover the inner worlds of people,in general, and, especially, the people who , like me, are interested to find the true answers about life - who they, really, are ,what this life is all about, from where we came , and what they, really, need and want from it !...
I love to engage in communication of deep ideas and feelings, to philosophize, to help people in effective way ...!Most of all, I like being real and authentic and to be with people who are doing the same... ...
The things that i consider important in life are effective communication, love, trust, intimacy, truth, honesty, beauty, true friendship, spiritual closeness, understanding, joy, happiness, creativity, sincerity, physical and mental health, integrity, wisdom, understanding......
It is very important for me to find my true soulmate, but FRIENDSHIPs , especially, the true one, and developing them with others, are very valuable for me! ...
So, i don't concentrate,only, on finding here my true soulmate. Finding and having true friend is a real treasure for me , and i understand it very well!
And one of my abilities in life ,i am proud about, is my ability to be a true friend( as my other abilities to be good father and husband!)...
In my opinion, true friendship is relathionship of mutual trust, understanding, open and sincere communication, full honesty,love, support, spiritual closeness ......
The most important "parts" of my relationship with true friend are COMMUNICATION, mutual honesty,respect, high affinity , sincerity,trust, responsibility, support and help ......
About beauty:... I love beauty very much , but..your inner beauty, ethics, integrity and character are of much higher order of importance ......
As it relates to my "soulmate" , I would like to meet a woman who will want to become very close to me , in all the meanings of the word! To whom what is important are not superficial apperances, but what she finds very deep inside my inner world! ...
I want such a relationship with her , in which main thing in it is not ME,but WE!...
Woman whose main goals,dreams, interests, ideals and purposes in life are very close to mine! Who loves many kinds of music i love.Who looks with me on life and what is most important in it, in the same direction!...
Woman who wants physical and spiritual closeness and intimacy and relationships based on mutual love, truth, sharing of deep ideas and feelings, understanding, full honesty, sincerity and trust! ...I love challenges! A challenge of having a life partner with whom i'll share high-tone spirit of play in this amazing adventure that is called "life ", in the direction of moving ,together, toward our dreams and higher states of awareness,health, beauty, energy,understanding,perception,reality,communication,aliveness,alertness,rationality,happiness,joy,love,truth and trust ! A challenge of completely open, honest and sincere communication! A challenge of hard work in the direction of achieving worthwhile purposes! A challenge of thinking,dreaming,acting, behaving etc. not, only, in the terms of this "only" life, but in the terms of the future generations!
Once, on one of the sites like this ,i have read the profile of woman that said
: "What I want in a man is for him to help me remember to ignore distractions that keep me from doing the only thing that really matters: going totally free spiritually."
- Going totally free spiritually ,is one of the greatest challenges in this life! ,and i want life partner who will help and will encourage me ,along this path of :GOING TOTALLY FREE SPIRITUALLY! (more exactly-we'll help each other on this path!) ...What is an intelligent behaviour?- It is the behaviour when you devote the most of your time to the things that are most important! Important ,as from the viewpoint of this lifetime,so from the viewpoints of all future lifetimes!...And what can be more important in life ,than THE STATE OF TOTAL SPIRITUAL FREEDOM?!!! ...
In my opinion, one of the main reasons of the present state of UNDERSTANDING between us is not sufficient communication ,the kind of communication that enables each one of us to get sufficient amount of true data about each other ,and in this way, to become more REAL and understandable to each other!
The more true data about the true needs ,wants and problems of each other we'll have , the more we'll be able to understand help each other! ...
.. I use here ,many times, the term "grant beingness",so i want to give its correct definition! To grant beingness: to let someone else be what he is. Listening carefully to what someone has to say and taking care to understand them, being courteous, refraining from needless criticism, expressing admiration ,affinity or love, accepting them as they are, are examples of the actions of someone who can grant others beingness.
My happiness depends not ,only, on my personal happiness and well-being ,but on the happiness and well-being of the people who a dear to me - mother,father,sister etc. When people treat me with good manners and respect. When nice girl gives me a charming smile,or looks me straight into the eyes, or is holding hands with me,or,in other physical ways expresses her affection.(Physical touch,especially,from somebody i enjoy to be very close ,is very important to me!)
When there is somebody with whom i can share what is going on inside my mind and be myself.When i am in alignment with(and progressing toward) my highest goals and purposes in life. When i see around me people who are healthy,cheerful and happy..When i smell the odors of flowers . When i hear the singing of the birds . When i am outside and iinhale fresh air after thunderstorm...When i read a good book, philosophize.When i watch old hollywood musicals .When i learn things which give me better understanding of life,people and myself.When i am creative.When i do well my job.When somebody understands me. When i use my sense of humour at the appropriate time.When i use my creative imagination. When i deal with people who are honest, don't conceal their true motives and intentions , communicate with me in intelligent,friendly, constructive, creative ways; are open, helpful,fair,decent, sincere...When i am creating good and positive effects on others! Such effects that make them well and happy!...
The best day of my life was :
My first day at school.Another- the day when I discovered Scientology.. About the future:the best day of my life will be when my dreams of becoming Clear and Operating Thetan will become reality!
If I could have dinner with any three people, they would be:
Me!...Not the present ME ,but the future ME! The ME of eternity years from now, from very distant future,extending quadrillion of quadrillions of lifetimes ...to eternity!...And it will be very joyful to the present ME to meet the ME from eternity!(Honestly,i ,even,don't know if it will be very pleasant to ME from eternity to see the present Me,but...i hope,he( Oh!... Excuse me! - "ME!!!") will find the ways to overcome that disappointment!) ...YOU! ...L.Ron Hubbard! ...Why? - Read all of his writtings!Perhaps,after reading all of them,you'll understand why!
For fun I like to...
Watch old Hollywood musicals ,listen to good quality perfomances of operas, classical music, romantic vocal, instrumental and gypsy jazz, swing, bossa nova.. .Listen,with pleasure, to the singers: Barbra Streisand, Frank Sinatra, Dean Martin, Vic Damone, Robert Goulet, John Gary, Steve Lawrence, Eydie Gorme, Della Reese, Sarah Vaughan, Tony Bennett , Jerry Vale, Jack Jones, Rosemary Clooney, Bing Crosby, Perry Como, Mario Lanza, Johnny Mathis, Andy Williams, Julio Iglecias etc.... ; dance ballroom and latin dances; read good poetry, literature, science-fiction, books of philosopical, psychological and new-age nature; observe and explore the world and life around me...
My favorite movies:
Hollywood musicals and other classics from 1930-1960 with Fred Astaire, Gene Kelly, Eleanor Powell, Frank Sinatra, Dean Martin, Bing Crosby, Bob Hope, Deanna Durbin, Alice Faye, Donald O'Connor, Vera Ellen, Judy Garland, Doris Day, Lucille Ball, Shirley Jones, Danny Kaye, Julie Andrews , Leslie Caron etc.
I enjoy,too,good science-fiction movies, comedies(Jerry Luis), adventure(Jean Marais), historical , romantic ...The musicals of Busby Berkeley, Vincent Minnnelli,etc.
My favorite music:
I enjoy , very much , good classical music , classical ballet , good opera singers, operetta (Imre Kalman , Franz Lehar ,Johann Strauss...) , Hollywood musicals from 1930-1960 , bossa nova , neapolitan songs...Good ballroom music (waltz,tango,foxtrot,charleston,cha-cha-cha, swing etc)...I love to listen to good vocal jazz singers , easy listening music such as orchestras of Paul Mauriat , Raymond Lefevre, James Last, Andre Rieu ,Caravelli ,Ray Conniff singers etc. ... The music of Rogers and Hammerstein; Cole Porter; Gershwin; Michel Legrand; Francis Lai; Vladimir Cosma; Nino Rota; Chopin, Mozart, Beethoven, Johann Strauss, Bach, Haydn ... ...The Big Bands of Swing: Benny Goodman, Harry James, Glenn Miller, Les Brown, Tommy Dorsey, Jimmy Dorsey, Count Basie, Artie Shaw etc...I like to watch Mezzo tv channel,the channel of classical music and jazz.Here i find the kind of music that i love and that is very close to my musical taste!... I love - Saint-Saens - "Introduction and Rondo Capriccioso " in the performance of great violinists of the wolrd( i ,myself,have learned violin when i was a child)...And, of course, listening to such great singers as Frank Sinatra, Judy Garland, Johnny Mathis , Danielle Licari, Julio Iglesias etc. brings me great joy!...
About my goals: i have many goals.The most important between them are truth,knowledge,honesty ,joy,love,friendship,happiness, health and deeper and deeper understanding of life! My goals are to become all i can be , potentially, to enjoy life, and to contribute to others the best i can! ...My goals are to be, always, honest and sincere,first of all,with myself ,about what i really want in and from life! And i want to be happy,healthy and to live it fully!To understand it to the deepest level, and to act on the basis of this understanding! ... For me ,joy of living is joy of intimacy; true friendship ; romance and true love;physical and spiritual closeness; trust ;honesty; being true to myself, learning; being useful to others; abundant health; doing my work well; discovering and bringing out in others all the best in them;communicating from heart to heart;achieving better understanding between myself and others;loving touch; breathing clean and fresh air of forests,parks, gardens and mountains; become more alive, alert,intelligent and creative; thinking and contemplating; creative use of my imagination; feeling myself the participant,and not the observer,of life;living wisely;the knowledge of things that can assist survival,being who i want to be, doing what i want to do and having what i want to have; reaching higher levels of awareness,ability,truth and understanding;CONNECTING with others; .... As it relates to the quality of our present life,I know that our ability to enjoy life depends on knowing the true factors and causes that make,or can make, us healthy or ill,sane or mad,sad or happy...There are many hazards in our "modern" world to our health,with it's air polution,the products of chemical industry,the quality of food we buy in Supermarkets,the water we drink ,the drugs prescribed by the doctor, etc. The best way to overcome them is with knowing the truth! The truth about what can ,really,harm us and what can make us well and happy!.......... I don't believe in falling in love from the first sight and distinguish between "falling in love" and "love"! I believe in falling in love from the second sight ,and by this i mean that after you've got to know the real ME,(and by "ME" i mean ,here,all my true feelings,thoughts,opinions,attitudes,beliefs,needs,principles and wants,which exist in the deepest levels of my mind;my character ),and i've got to know the real YOU,and we ,both,will like what we have found deep inside each other ,and ,by this,become very real to each other ,there is a good chance that we'll fall in love with each other as spiritual beings,because the real love is not between the bodies ,but between spiritual beings,and falling in love,only,with someone's pretty and attractive body(without,really,knowing this person character,and who he is very deep inside) doesn't ,really,mean falling in love! There is a difference between love and falling in love! I admit that i can fall in love with someone's pretty face,pretty smile ,pretty eyes ,pretty lips,pretty...(let's don't forget there are other,no less attractive,women's body parts we,the men, can fall in love,too! ),but only ,after ,really,getting to know this person's inner world ,true tone level and how,truely, ethical he is , i will know if i,really,love her and, really,want to be very close to her in all the meanings of the word! ... I don't imagine,to myself, my life with another person in any other way than the life of quality communication and sharing what is deep inside of our inner worlds. I don't believe that it is possible to be very close with one another when you feel that there are things (from your past or present;some of your "sins", "transgressions", " dark secrets" ,"affairs" ,"unfinished businesses or relationships" etc. ) that you must conceal ...or she conceals from you. Any relationship with another person ,or persons involves agreements between you and them . Agreements about what is proper and what is improper. When these agreements are broken,when we break the codes of honour,honesty,trust,fidelity,mutual support,etc., it destroys our relationship with another! From the other side,when we keep these codes and agreements ,when we keep our word ,don't lie etc. - our relationship thrivies! ...In other words,everything we do in our relationships with others can or promote,or destroy these relationships,and we must be aware of this!... This is what i want in my relationship with woman whom i want to choose as my life partner and as my friend:i want to share with her my whole inner world(my past,my present,my future; my true feelings,beliefs,attitudes,opinions about everything; my most cherished dreams;goals,intentions,desires; my true needs; my ideals, the principles by which i live by) And i want life parner who wants to share with me her whole inner world! It is because one of the things that i want in my life with my life partner is very high level of intimacy and understanding between us! Acting in life as "WE" ,sharing with each other our most cherished dreams and desires ;inspirng each other to reach these dreams;and,when these dreams are reached,to inspire each other toward creating and reaching new ,most impossible and most challenging dreams; keeping the level of communication ,agreements and understanding between us as high as possible! ... Don't misunderstand me about what i,really,mean! What i,really,want is relationships in which we don't hide our actions,as well as our feelings and thoughts,from each other; look at life in the same direction,as it relates to our ideals,dreams,beliefs and principles,have(or develop) many common interests,and many common likes and dislikes, love each other, willing to learn and understand each other better , and do this spontaneously by communication based on high level of affinity, honesty, sincerity and trust!... .The willingness to lift the curtain and let somebody peek at the inner you is ,certainly, an invitation to intimacy,and it's one that many people are very timid about offering.If we reveal our real selves ,point out the location of our soft spots,we're afraid we'll look foolish,mean,or even perverted,and we'll lose the respect of our partner and friend...I am very special person ,from this point of view ! I don't afraid to lift the curtain and let somebody,with whom i want the relationships of true friendship, peek at the inner ME !...I don't afraid to reveal my real Self ,point out the location of my soft spots etc... I don't afraid to reveal FULL TRUTH about myself !...And i don't afraid that somebody will "punish" me for being fully honest and sincere! ... One of the reasons that many people afraid to communicate with each other , on the deep level of full trust ,honesty and sincerity, is because they know : they can be punished for telling the truth ,so ...they prefer not to tell the full truth ,or lie to each other ,to avoid confrontation with full truth!...Here is an example : ( from the book "Miracles for breakfast" by Ruth Mishull ) : " Little Abercrombie is playing on the beach. He comes up to Mother and says, “I hit that girl on the head.” ... If Mother is very wise, she will say, “Thank you for telling me that.” That’s all. If Mother is typical, she will say, “Why, you naughty boy.You must never hit little girls. You’re going to get a spanking for that!”... Abercrombie gets the message. Not that he shouldn’t hit little girls . He already knew that! What he learned was this: “I mustn’t tell my Mommy when I do something bad ’cause I’ll get spanked!" ... So this Mother inadvertently takes one of the first steps in making it unsafe for her child to talk to her. Soon he will start “withholding.” He will not tell anyone about his misdeeds!... If you kick the dog every time you come in the door, the dog will soon learn to hide when he hears you coming in the door. If you punish a child for communicating, he learns to stop communicating! ") ...Very important part of my relationship with my life partner is full honesty and trust!The word "trust" comes from the German word “trost” which means comfort. Trust is having the confidence or faith in another person to do what they say they will do. It means believing in the honesty and the reliability of that other person.The Oxford Dictionary defines trust as “a firm belief in reliability, honesty, veracity, justice, strength of a person or thing or as belief that someone is honest and will not harm you, cheat you etc. When you trust a person, you believe that they have your best interest at heart. They wouldn't do something to hurt you for the fun of it, or for selfish gain. You rely on them...When we know well another person and his true position on an emotional tone scale ,we know trust him or not,we know if he(she) deserves our trust or not! We know what is ,really,on his mind:his true intentions toward us,others,himself;his true thoughts and feelings...We know ,from our experience with him and from our observations as he behaves toward others,if he ,always,keeps his word,lies or telling the truth,keeps or breaks agreements with other people; is reliable for sharing our secrets , can be given our credit card number ,or our life ,health(the doctors),property,possessions in his hands. Another thing that i consider very important in life is learning life's lessons , learning from mistakes,because if i don't learn from them and improve my ways as the result ,i don't progress in life! One of the main things we want to get in life are RESULTS,but not everything we do helps us to get the results we want,so...there is a need to learn from experience and improve our ways... What is my image of my ideal life partner? Which qualities do i want to find in her? - An admiration for many things,and ,between them,music( i have written which kind of music),real beauty, good poetry,quality movies, great literature ,nature,children,people,sharing of deep ideas and feelings,honesty,sincerity, flowers,classical ballet,great art and paintings... I want a woman who is competely honest,sincere,loyal,responsible,romantic,intelligentl,musical,tactful,courteous,communicative,enthusiastic about life,interested in others, and helping them, more, than being interesting..., have survival skills such as driving licence,good job,competency in what she does in life.....Woman who doesn't needs laws,rules or policies to force her to be honest...She enjoys hearing and passing on good news ,ideas,inspiring concepts and solutions...Enjoys talking ,but,equally,is able and willing to listen... Has a natural instict for fidelity and constancy-the desire for monogamistic relationship...She deeply enjoys learning , studying and exploring all her life! She enjoys good sense of humour and the spirit of play.Loves to laugh and share.She don't likes being in a rut and feels best when she is creating,learning and growing.She is looking for a man who is able to be her best friend .A man who knows himself well and is confident in his abilities and value.A man who enjoys to learn and is open to new things and experiences. A man who understands that relationships, as life itself, to grow, is something that needs to be created,every moment, and the moment we cease to create it ,it starts to decay.A man who is able to know the truth when he sees it !I ,clearly,understand that in real life it's impossible that everything will be very close to ideals,and, don't forget, all the qualities i have described are about my ideal life partner, but...in real life, there are real women, no ideal! Some of them can have many qualities that i have described about my ideal life parner, but, in no way, all of them!... For this reason, i don't set any limitations or conditions on you! You can be,completely different from the picture of ideal life partner i described here!...Of course there are qualities that attract me in women ,both, physical , mental and spirituall,and other qualities which repel me from them: ,i am attracted to young women,or,more exactly,to the qualities of youth, that are in women,regardless of their age...Tall women attract me more than full women...Completely healthy women more than not completely healthy..There is the factor of intelligence: the more she is intelligent ,the more she attracts me...If a woman smokes i prefer that she will do it not in my presence...I don't love critical women...Are we enjoying to communicate with each other?- It is,too,critical factor..But, really, the factor of the attractiveness of a woman for me is very relative factor! Why?- Because , in your essence , you're a spiritual being! Women who are on the highest levels of emotional tone scale are much more attractive to me than the women in the lower bands of it,regardless of their innate physical characteristics!. Admiration, high interest, enthusiasm, fascination ,the spirit of play etc. make women very beautiful in my eyes!...But most critical test of my relationship with woman is our communication ,and compatibility of our characters in our lives together! How easy we communicate and understand each other? How we feel ,when and after, we communicate ? Are our emotional tones and communication lags are matching? Does our lives together bring joy and happiness to both of us? What is the pleasure -pain ratio in our relationships? Somebody have said that most ideal pleasure-pain ratio is 85 percent pleasure and 15 percent pain,just to keep life more interesting!...Mutual love,degree of understanding,amount of joy and happiness , communication factor,honesty,ethics...-all these things are very important in family life!...Some women miss many good men by putting limitaions on them,by saying, to example that they will accept them only if they'll love this or that : animals ,travels etc. Will be this or that: athletic, rich etc. Wll do this or that. Have this or that... O.K!...,but I don't put any limitations and conditions on YOU! I am willing to accept you as you are ,without limiting you in any way : be with me the way you're! Believe in what you believe .Do what you do! Love what you love!...But ,please,don't put any limitations and conditions on me ,too,by accepting me,only if i'll do this or that; belong to this group or that,believe in this or that etc. ..The best things in life are free!...The best relationships are relationships in which, both parties, aren't trying to control , limit or "change" each other in any way! Otherwise these are the low tone relationships! People who are,really,very high on the emotional tone scale accept you as you are, grant beingness to you ,and being with them is pure joy!They don't try to conrol or "change" you in any way!They are an experts of granting beingness to others!... There is a connecting bridge that can compensate for our differences ,and that is ...LOVE!(High toned love!) ...When this magic of LOVE , or as some call it - "chemistry" , begins to exist between YOU and ME, i am sure, we'll find the ways to become interested in what interests and close to each one of us!...A classic example : She never had interest in football , and he never had interest in philosophy,arts and poesy, but because football is what interests him ,and poetry is what she likes very much, both of them, in order to become closer to each other, develop sincere interest in the things that interest each one of them!...And, as Frenchman have said, "Appetite comes with eating. ...In one of the profiles of women (not here) i have read: " I see myself as a Seeker of the Truth of my purpose in this lifetime and the whole story of the human being on this planet..." ...I can tell ,the same,about myself,and,even,more: " I see myself,not ,only, as a Seeker of the Truth of my purpose in this lifetime,but as the Seeker of the Truth,as it relates to many of our lifetimes ,here on Earth,other planets and planes of existence... Truth is very important "commodity" for me,because,only by knowing the Truth,full Truth,can we become free!...It is a true paradox of our times: we have ,now,so much sure information about the nature of the universe,time,space,matter,our own bodies ,and,yet ,there is,still,enourmous amount of things we don't know the full truth about! ...We don't know full truth about the foods we eat,and how it relates to our state of health or illness;we don't know many things about our bodies and ALL of the things they need to function at their optimum level ; what can be harmful or beneficial to them,on the long run...We don't know the truth about the real causes of many"modern" diseases...We don't know the full truth about the functioning of our minds,and we don't know the full truth about ourselves as spiritual beings!..So,the direction,at least for me,is get to know,gradually,the full truth...Along the physical factors ,there are mental and spiritual factors ,the most of them are contained in the writtings of L.Ron Hubbard,and my purpose is to get to know them all ! Of course, to "know" sounds good,but the final purpose is to understand and apply,because,only,by properly understanding and applying what we know can we make the world ,and the future ,better,more happy and more promising!...Courage,persistence and mutual help,are very important in this journey,because we are all "in the same ship",though in very different parts of it!... Another important thing that we forget,sometimes, about this life is that LIFE is ,essentially, a CREATION! And we are,truely,the prime CREATORS of it, of it's quality,joy,magic,beauty,direction...The better our understanding of life,ourselves,others;the universe of matter,space,energy and time ;and the higher order universes of MIND and LIFE itself become,the better CREATORS ,CO-CREATORS and ACTORS of LIFE we become! ...And ,of course,life is a matter of CONTRIBUTION! It is what YOU contribute to any part of it!...Playing the game of life can be compared to playing the game of chess: when you play it with somebody who is far above you in talent and ability ,and surpass you in any way,or far below you in ability to play it well,you wouldn't enjoy it.You'll experience the most joy in playing the game of life when you'll play it with a partner whose ability to play it equals,or very close, to your's!
In one of the profiles of women (not here) i have read that she regards as her greatest accomplishments in life - pro-survival decisions..How exactly said!....Even that she is very young,she is very wise ,and I agree,with her,completely,about this! The road to eternity and total spiritual freedom lies through the pro-survival decisons we take and carry out into practice in our lives!...And, here, by "pro-survival decisons " i don't mean decisions carried on the personal basic -the, only, survival of Self,because,in reality, it isn't pro-survival decisons ,at all! ..To give you an extreme example, Hitler made "pro-survival" decisions ( he thought so in " Mein Kampff ") for the German race, but these "decisions" were decisions at the expense of survival of all other races of the world!...Survival of one person,one group, or few persons and few groups ,at the expense of all others, isn't , really, SURVIVAL, in the real sense of this word! When the things i do for my survival are beneficial ( and not detrimental) not, only, to mine, but to yours ,others ,and all other areas of life that support our lives in the direction of better survival of all - this is SURVIVAL in it's true sense!...
..Most of the people look at this life,and talk about it in the terms of one lifetime.They ask: "Where do you see yourself five years from now,ten years from now,twenty (or fifty) years from now?"...I look at life in much broader perspective ,in the perspective of eternity... Looking at life in the terms of eternity and spiritual immortality, and understanding that we'll meet with one another in the future lifetimes ,"wearing" another bodies,and,perhaps on another planets ,or planes of existence,gives a very different perspective on what we do in present......What about high ideals such as true love, friendship,romance ,finding your soulmate,happiness,...? What about taking personal responsibility about what happens in our world and what will happen in it at the near and distant future?... What about helping to make this world more sane,more healthy ,more fair?... What about making this life more enjoyable,more interesting,more understandable,more livable for all? ...I will tell YOU what this all about! - It is about eternity!
I would define a spiritual experience as... :
Unearthy ocean of joy and deep happiness you find deep inside yourself! For me,it is feeling that i am not sepate from all of you,but we are all connected on much deeper level than the levels of matter,energy,space,time,life and death.On this deep level,we love each other ,and "love" implies wishing good for others. For me,spiritual experience is feeling of deep peace and certainty i feel about my own spiritual immortality and spiritual immortality of all of you...Love,in it's true sense,is spiritual experience,far above from the love for the bodies!...Finding your soulmate,and being sure that it is your soulmate -is spiriutal experience.Rising above the limitations of matter,energy ,space and time -is spiritual experience! Having full certainty about the existence of the Supreme Being -is spiritual experience! Feeling high affinity for other people- is spiritual experience.Being aware about the existence of something of not material nature :spiritual beings;other(Theta) worlds; love; happiness etc. -is spiritual experience!
Where have I known you before?... Where did we play among galaxies bright... Laughing and dancing... creating each night... Deciding the course to then venture on out ... Love, you, space and I... Free from fear, free from doubt... Where have I known you before?... Where have I loved you before?... Was it just yesterday... Or millennia ago I kissed, touched, held and needed you so?... Your face is so different... Yet you, you’re you, just you... Still glowing and silvery bright... Wondrous dancingly bright!... I knew you the moment you entered my room... That infinite eternal night!... Where have I loved you before?... Where have I hurt you before?... Where did I hurt you so deep- so deep... To hear you say you knew me not... When you alone could save me there... And free me from that tyrant’s keep... Defender of the Vulcan worlds!... Where filled my mind with blackened sleep?... Where have I hurt you before?... Where did I lose you before?... Was it when you gave your life To save that pharaoh king... Or when our golden mothership took flight Far away from Saturn's rings?... Was it when we made the pact... Then drifted into violet space... So certain we would meet the other side... But there was no such place?... Where did I lose you before?... Where have I known you before?... The moment I saw you I knew I had found again the singer of a thousand songs That haunted every dream. The painter of the colors of my mind Reminding me of places we had been!... I’m seeing clearer now-the truth unfolds... The past all drifts away... You’re back again my dearest friend!... You never went away!...
I believe this life isn't "the only" life we live , lived ,or will live!
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One of my joys in life is to study and learn!
About what? - About everything! But ,especially, - about LIFE!
And by " LIFE" i mean not ,only, lifeless physical universe , composed of space,matter, energy and time , but that aspect of LIFE which is called Theta ! Theta and anything connected with it - good news, good sense of humour, the spirit of play , granting of beingness , admiration, cheerfulness, true romance, good literature and poetry, high toned works of art, Ethics, culture,
, stability, reason, intelligence, sanity , high levels of affinity ,reality and COMMUNICATION , respect, true LOVE, true friendship, the state of Clear and above, deep joy and happiness , high toned kind of communication, beauty , order, harmony , full honesty, knowingness, Understanding, truth, inspiration, fascination, live communication, telepathy, wisdom, greatness , persistence , 21 precepts of " The Way to Happiness" and their application ,serenity ,peace of mind , freedom from reactivity, clearness of thought, spirit of play, creative talents and abilities, an analytical mind that functions at the top , full trust , all the desirable levels and states of awareness and existence, full responsibility ,pan-determinism, the best and most desirable in ME, YOU, OTHERS and all life , true spiritual freedom...
(For more information about Theta read The Science of Survival by L.Ron Hubbard)
My primary language is Russian. My work is working with people. And it means for me two things -serving others well and competently ,and doing it in the spirit of love. I like very much to learn new things which increase my understanding -my degrees of affinity,reality and communication with myself ,others and all life , and help me to live my life at its best - being in HERE and Now - fully in Present Time , enjoy it fully , be productive, flourish and prosper, communicate ,create such "products" which are prosurvival for all eight dynamics .
The subject of spiritual freedom is fascinating subject for me.
And the states of Clear , all O.T. levels and such rundowns as Super -Power ,Cause Resurgence , L- rundowns are matters of great interest, inspiration, motivation, admiration and enthusiasm for me !
What i want to know (and be able ,fully, apply) is all that is contained in all the writings ,lectures , letters, journals and other spoken or written communications of this fascinating man -L.Ron Hubbard!
This is Why Scientology intererests me so much - it contains all the wisdom , all the answers and all true solutions about life i , always, wanted to know and know-how to reach true spiritual freedom .
It is very important for me to know about YOU - which things create the basis of our common REALITY : on which things we look and about what we feel the same; what we ,both, consider important; what our common beliefs, ideals,goals,dreams,intentions... What we ,both, consider as true, right and correct... What we,both, like and dislike. About what we are in total agreement. What we ,both , know and are certain about.What we want to contribute to each other. What ,for both of us , has great value and desirability. What our common needs, wants and dreams. What excites, interests,makes enthusiastic , fascinates,inspires, makes more alive both of us. What creates more closeness, affinity,trust, intimacy, between (and for both of ) us. Which kind of "games" , we both, like and enjoy to play , and which not. Which things in life we ,both, understand , and which ,we both, can't understand.
It will of great interest for me to get to know what you consider important on every one of your eight dynamics ! And not , in general, but in very concrete way!
So,who is this person ,the picture of whom you see above ? And do i know him, in some degree? ...Let's see! ...
He is ,completely, unconventional, true to himself , has highest ideals and goals ,authentic,adventurous, impossible,likes to be original, romantic, thinking and looking at things out of boxes, honest ,sincere, ethical, responsible, very musical , intelligent, has an excellent sense of humour, tactful , loves to communicate on deep levels of intimacy and truth , share deep ideas and feelings; aesthetic, sensitive, open-minded ,likes to communicate ,interested in sanity, health , happiness and in highest degrees of affinity,reality and communication with all aspects of life.
Able to look at things not,only, from his own point of view, but to put himself in the places of others and to look at life from their viewpoints, too, in order to become able to understand and help them better!
He enjoys good manners ,and has one's.
There are no "authorities" for him ,except his own direct observations,experiences and knowingness.
He loves aesthetic things and despises behaviours and communications that represent low toned attitude toward life and all aspects of it ...
For him,the happiness lies in communication! (high toned kind of communication)
Communication based on high ethics attitude ,agreement, high affinity, ,truth, justice, sincerity, true interest, correct aplication of communication formula and A.R.C triangle, the forth level of Exchange (as described in what L.Ron Hubbard tells about exchange)...
To be in good communication with other beings,other living things , whole universe,nature ...and,of course, good communication with himself - his highest goals,ideals and dreams; deepest needs and feelings; inner truth, wisdom and knowingness; all the talents and abilities...
If there is something he believes, it is few main things - in love, true friendships,himself , and goodness of all human beings!
He needs to admit - he ,deeply, enjoys anything that is ,truely, beautiful - enviroments, surroundings, buildings,houses, masterpieces of art, ballet, nature... Beautiful flowers,plants,animals... But, especially, he enjoys beautiful people - children, man and ,especially, beautiful women! He is very affected by anything,truely, beautiful !
In spite of this , beauty is very relative thing in his eyes! Only when the external beauty becomes completed with the inner beauty ,it becomes perfect in his eyes,mind and feelings! Every person has in him (her) inner beauty ,and when he becomes able ,fully, to express it ,it compensates for the lack of natural external beauty.
So,he seeks ,here, friends not, only, on the basis of how nice they look on the pictures, but on the basis of their true tone level ( of course , he wants to associate with the person who is located on the highest tone levels !) and their communication based on it.
For this reason,your physical looks,,what is your age ,where you live on this Earth etc. are taken into account ,but your true inner beauty is very important to him ! How honest and sincere you are. Can you be ,fully,trusted .How high is your ethics, and how high is your chronical emotional tone in which you preside,most of the time!
He thinks that relationship with woman needs to be more than, simply, romantic or physical ! Much more ! - It needs to be ,first of all, spiritual relationship,in which people share a lot of common realities . They are able to share with each other their deepest thoughts, dreams, ideals, wisdom,feelings and needs, and,actually,share ! Their relationship is realtionship of best friends ,based on full trust, honesty,sincerity , closeness and intimacy , common interests ,purposes, goals and ideals , mutual likes and dislikes, high Ethics and the spirit of play!
His favorite things to do:
To study (by reaching the full conceptual understanding of) all the works of L.Ron Hubbard and to apply in life the principles,data,axioms,formuls etc. of Scientology.
Communication is essence of life. So,for him, living full life is to communicate (two-way communication) with all 8 dynamics and to participate on all of them.
It doesn't mean he doesn't enjoys traveling, the beauty of nature,the activities of second dynamic,masterpieces of art, good music, ballroom dances,watching the classical ballet,reading good poetry etc. He enjoys them very much!
But,the main thing in life,in his opinion,is hard WORK,activities with worthwhile purposes!
And ,by this ,he means the WORK of moving toward states of Clear and above, the work toward reaching highest and most desirable states of being and Survival on all 8 dynamics...
Pleasure, happiness and survival go together! For him ,they represent condition of true friendship and intimacy , freedom from reactive mind, being Clear and O.T, wisdom, sanity, true love, good physical health, production, communication , being true to highest purposes,goals and ideals, mutual understanding and the highest Ethics.
Win -Win attitude - winning in life and helping others to do the same; being productive, creative, flourishing and prospering... It is music; communication of deep ideas and feelings, being true to highest goals, ideals and dreams, honesty and sincerity with himself and others, using his mind and talents to the maximum , treating others the way he wants others will treat him - with honesty, consideration, ,respect, high affinity ,understanding and love......
Contribute to others something valuable for them that adds to their well being, joy, happiness, health,understanding , success and better survival in life..And when others are honest and sincere with him; treat him with respect and full trust, show good manners and grant him beingness (and vice- versa)......
It is when his body,mind and senses are functioning at their optimum level...It is living his life in his own unique way in which he is true to his own observations, knowingness, deep feelings,life wisdom,abilities to think,judge,decide, and to his highest ideals and dreams...
And constantly to increase knowledge ,wisdom and understanding of life... it is making pro-survival decisions and carrying them into reality......
He loves positive create-create-create people who are very high on emotional tone scale, ethical, productive, efficient, exhibit good manners, very honest and sincere , grant beingness to others, responsible and intelligent......
His needed and wanted in life are true friends, communication, high Ethics, justice, peace of mind , joy, deep happiness ,truth, love, wisdom and UNDERSTANDING!
.Not, only,to have and experience,but to be able to bring them into the lives of others! ...
He enjoys studying and learning, good classical music, classical ballet , intimacy, understanding and spiritual closeness , heart-2-heart conversations, to exercise his creative abilities fully , to be productive, great works of art, flowers, good books and poetry, philosophical conversations, helping others in the spirit of love, honesty and sincerity with others(and vice versa), to be his best ,both,physically and spiritually, to live full life and to approach and solve its problems creatively. ...
To be in nature, closeness with the suitable member of the opposite sex, to live such life that reflects his highest dreams,principles ,beliefs, goals and ideals! ...
To communicate with others on the highest levels of honesty, sincerity,truth and trust, be competent and do work well , to grant beingness to others , treat others with respect,honesty,justice and love ( and be treaten, the same , by them )......
What is LOVE?...- For me, LOVE is deep joy and happiness i experience when i am with YOU, and near YOU ; when i perceive YOU through all my senses and other feelings, when i think about you ... And when i am saying "YOU", I mean the YOU that inhabits this body and who YOU, really,and essentially are: unique spiritual being, awareness of awareness unit, with your unique inner world, wishes,wants,needs, deep feelings and character ; beliefs , likes and dislikes, talents, abilites, thoughts,ideas, emotions, imagination, knowingness, opinions, dreams, goals, plans; abilities to perceive, remember, think, judge, understand , create, decide; sense of humour, intelligence ......
When i am with YOU , the world is brighter, life is fun , cheerful and wonderful place to be, do, play, explore, enjoy and conquer, and is full of beauty, magic , charm, fascination, joy and romance. ......
It looks like amazing game, wonderful , enjoyable and fun game! ......... An adventure ...
You make me a child again!...With YOU i become the best ME!.....
Love brings about in ME the romantic, the poet, the philosopher, an artist...!...
I don't, especially, love to watch televison ( especially,with the content of the programms presented at our "modern" times, which is very far from anything, really, spiritual,or that which ,really, enriches the soul))...
I am very selective about what i watch on it ,and prefer to watch things which enrich me mentally,emotionally or spiritually, or, at least, bring me joy and deep pleasure.... (The same is about the books i read ,conversations with others, radio, Internet ,journals and newspapers, the art works etc....
And i don't love to communicate a lot with people through the phone or Internet ( a very "fashionable" thing to do in our times!) !I prefer to it an "old fashioned" live communication !...
Live communication with others is important to me ,but i prefer such kind of it which consist of mutual sincerity, openess, high affinity, good manners, many agreements , respect, trust, honesty, good communication skills, willingness of both sides to communicate, joy and good duplication and understanding ....
I love wide spaces of nature:parks ,gardens,forests ......
People that i enjoy are people who have good manners ,have an attitude of friendliness,openess and respect for others , are highly ethical , honest, responsible ,sincere, fair, just, competent, keep,always, their word, can be dependent upon......
People who exhibit such qualities and attitudes , toward others and life, as admiration, fascination, enthusiasm,serenity, interest,inspiration, encouragement, motivation an excellent sense of humour, cheerfulness ,hope,trust, love and respect... ...
I love everything that expands the mind and make me more aware and alive , be it music , books, movies , art , people , communication , learning,conversations,thinking,special body or mental exercises etc. ......
I am unconventional, romantic, creative, very musical, open-minded , ethical , tactful, honest, sincere ,can be trusted upon ......
Life experience have teached me, that in spite of the fact that i am attracted to the tall, long-haired, good looking young women, there are, in life, things which are much more important than the external beauty! .....
I think, you understand what i mean! I mean the qualities of YOU and your inner world : your chronic emotional tone , beliefs, principles , ideals, opinions , attitudes and feelings about life, people, religion, sex, children, family etc. Your character, ethical standards and ideals , wisdom and rationality, integrity and responsibility level . .....
I enjoy to discover the inner worlds of people,in general, and, especially, the people who , like me, are interested to find the true answers about life - who they, really, are ,what this life is all about, from where we came , and what they, really, need and want from it !...
I love to engage in communication of deep ideas and feelings, to philosophize, to help people in effective way ...!Most of all, I like being real and authentic and to be with people who are doing the same... ...
The things that i consider important in life are effective communication, love, trust, intimacy, truth, honesty, beauty, true friendship, spiritual closeness, understanding, joy, happiness, creativity, sincerity, physical and mental health, integrity, wisdom, understanding......
It is very important for me to find my true soulmate, but FRIENDSHIPs , especially, the true one, and developing them with others, are very valuable for me! ...
So, i don't concentrate,only, on finding here my true soulmate. Finding and having true friend is a real treasure for me , and i understand it very well!
And one of my abilities in life ,i am proud about, is my ability to be a true friend( as my other abilities to be good father and husband!)...
In my opinion, true friendship is relathionship of mutual trust, understanding, open and sincere communication, full honesty,love, support, spiritual closeness ......
The most important "parts" of my relationship with true friend are COMMUNICATION, mutual honesty,respect, high affinity , sincerity,trust, responsibility, support and help ......
About beauty:... I love beauty very much , but..your inner beauty, ethics, integrity and character are of much higher order of importance ......
As it relates to my "soulmate" , I would like to meet a woman who will want to become very close to me , in all the meanings of the word! To whom what is important are not superficial apperances, but what she finds very deep inside my inner world! ...
I want such a relationship with her , in which main thing in it is not ME,but WE!...
Woman whose main goals,dreams, interests, ideals and purposes in life are very close to mine! Who loves many kinds of music i love.Who looks with me on life and what is most important in it, in the same direction!...
Woman who wants physical and spiritual closeness and intimacy and relationships based on mutual love, truth, sharing of deep ideas and feelings, understanding, full honesty, sincerity and trust! ...I love challenges! A challenge of having a life partner with whom i'll share high-tone spirit of play in this amazing adventure that is called "life ", in the direction of moving ,together, toward our dreams and higher states of awareness,health, beauty, energy,understanding,perception,reality,communication,aliveness,alertness,rationality,happiness,joy,love,truth and trust ! A challenge of completely open, honest and sincere communication! A challenge of hard work in the direction of achieving worthwhile purposes! A challenge of thinking,dreaming,acting, behaving etc. not, only, in the terms of this "only" life, but in the terms of the future generations!
Once, on one of the sites like this ,i have read the profile of woman that said
: "What I want in a man is for him to help me remember to ignore distractions that keep me from doing the only thing that really matters: going totally free spiritually."
- Going totally free spiritually ,is one of the greatest challenges in this life! ,and i want life partner who will help and will encourage me ,along this path of :GOING TOTALLY FREE SPIRITUALLY! (more exactly-we'll help each other on this path!) ...What is an intelligent behaviour?- It is the behaviour when you devote the most of your time to the things that are most important! Important ,as from the viewpoint of this lifetime,so from the viewpoints of all future lifetimes!...And what can be more important in life ,than THE STATE OF TOTAL SPIRITUAL FREEDOM?!!! ...
In my opinion, one of the main reasons of the present state of UNDERSTANDING between us is not sufficient communication ,the kind of communication that enables each one of us to get sufficient amount of true data about each other ,and in this way, to become more REAL and understandable to each other!
The more true data about the true needs ,wants and problems of each other we'll have , the more we'll be able to understand help each other! ...
.. I use here ,many times, the term "grant beingness",so i want to give its correct definition! To grant beingness: to let someone else be what he is. Listening carefully to what someone has to say and taking care to understand them, being courteous, refraining from needless criticism, expressing admiration ,affinity or love, accepting them as they are, are examples of the actions of someone who can grant others beingness.
My happiness depends not ,only, on my personal happiness and well-being ,but on the happiness and well-being of the people who a dear to me - mother,father,sister etc. When people treat me with good manners and respect. When nice girl gives me a charming smile,or looks me straight into the eyes, or is holding hands with me,or,in other physical ways expresses her affection.(Physical touch,especially,from somebody i enjoy to be very close ,is very important to me!)
When there is somebody with whom i can share what is going on inside my mind and be myself.When i am in alignment with(and progressing toward) my highest goals and purposes in life. When i see around me people who are healthy,cheerful and happy..When i smell the odors of flowers . When i hear the singing of the birds . When i am outside and iinhale fresh air after thunderstorm...When i read a good book, philosophize.When i watch old hollywood musicals .When i learn things which give me better understanding of life,people and myself.When i am creative.When i do well my job.When somebody understands me. When i use my sense of humour at the appropriate time.When i use my creative imagination. When i deal with people who are honest, don't conceal their true motives and intentions , communicate with me in intelligent,friendly, constructive, creative ways; are open, helpful,fair,decent, sincere...When i am creating good and positive effects on others! Such effects that make them well and happy!...
The best day of my life was :
My first day at school.Another- the day when I discovered Scientology.. About the future:the best day of my life will be when my dreams of becoming Clear and Operating Thetan will become reality!
If I could have dinner with any three people, they would be:
Me!...Not the present ME ,but the future ME! The ME of eternity years from now, from very distant future,extending quadrillion of quadrillions of lifetimes ...to eternity!...And it will be very joyful to the present ME to meet the ME from eternity!(Honestly,i ,even,don't know if it will be very pleasant to ME from eternity to see the present Me,but...i hope,he( Oh!... Excuse me! - "ME!!!") will find the ways to overcome that disappointment!) ...YOU! ...L.Ron Hubbard! ...Why? - Read all of his writtings!Perhaps,after reading all of them,you'll understand why!
For fun I like to...
Watch old Hollywood musicals ,listen to good quality perfomances of operas, classical music, romantic vocal, instrumental and gypsy jazz, swing, bossa nova.. .Listen,with pleasure, to the singers: Barbra Streisand, Frank Sinatra, Dean Martin, Vic Damone, Robert Goulet, John Gary, Steve Lawrence, Eydie Gorme, Della Reese, Sarah Vaughan, Tony Bennett , Jerry Vale, Jack Jones, Rosemary Clooney, Bing Crosby, Perry Como, Mario Lanza, Johnny Mathis, Andy Williams, Julio Iglecias etc.... ; dance ballroom and latin dances; read good poetry, literature, science-fiction, books of philosopical, psychological and new-age nature; observe and explore the world and life around me...
My favorite movies:
Hollywood musicals and other classics from 1930-1960 with Fred Astaire, Gene Kelly, Eleanor Powell, Frank Sinatra, Dean Martin, Bing Crosby, Bob Hope, Deanna Durbin, Alice Faye, Donald O'Connor, Vera Ellen, Judy Garland, Doris Day, Lucille Ball, Shirley Jones, Danny Kaye, Julie Andrews , Leslie Caron etc.
I enjoy,too,good science-fiction movies, comedies(Jerry Luis), adventure(Jean Marais), historical , romantic ...The musicals of Busby Berkeley, Vincent Minnnelli,etc.
My favorite music:
I enjoy , very much , good classical music , classical ballet , good opera singers, operetta (Imre Kalman , Franz Lehar ,Johann Strauss...) , Hollywood musicals from 1930-1960 , bossa nova , neapolitan songs...Good ballroom music (waltz,tango,foxtrot,charleston,cha-cha-cha, swing etc)...I love to listen to good vocal jazz singers , easy listening music such as orchestras of Paul Mauriat , Raymond Lefevre, James Last, Andre Rieu ,Caravelli ,Ray Conniff singers etc. ... The music of Rogers and Hammerstein; Cole Porter; Gershwin; Michel Legrand; Francis Lai; Vladimir Cosma; Nino Rota; Chopin, Mozart, Beethoven, Johann Strauss, Bach, Haydn ... ...The Big Bands of Swing: Benny Goodman, Harry James, Glenn Miller, Les Brown, Tommy Dorsey, Jimmy Dorsey, Count Basie, Artie Shaw etc...I like to watch Mezzo tv channel,the channel of classical music and jazz.Here i find the kind of music that i love and that is very close to my musical taste!... I love - Saint-Saens - "Introduction and Rondo Capriccioso " in the performance of great violinists of the wolrd( i ,myself,have learned violin when i was a child)...And, of course, listening to such great singers as Frank Sinatra, Judy Garland, Johnny Mathis , Danielle Licari, Julio Iglesias etc. brings me great joy!...
About my goals: i have many goals.The most important between them are truth,knowledge,honesty ,joy,love,friendship,happiness, health and deeper and deeper understanding of life! My goals are to become all i can be , potentially, to enjoy life, and to contribute to others the best i can! ...My goals are to be, always, honest and sincere,first of all,with myself ,about what i really want in and from life! And i want to be happy,healthy and to live it fully!To understand it to the deepest level, and to act on the basis of this understanding! ... For me ,joy of living is joy of intimacy; true friendship ; romance and true love;physical and spiritual closeness; trust ;honesty; being true to myself, learning; being useful to others; abundant health; doing my work well; discovering and bringing out in others all the best in them;communicating from heart to heart;achieving better understanding between myself and others;loving touch; breathing clean and fresh air of forests,parks, gardens and mountains; become more alive, alert,intelligent and creative; thinking and contemplating; creative use of my imagination; feeling myself the participant,and not the observer,of life;living wisely;the knowledge of things that can assist survival,being who i want to be, doing what i want to do and having what i want to have; reaching higher levels of awareness,ability,truth and understanding;CONNECTING with others; .... As it relates to the quality of our present life,I know that our ability to enjoy life depends on knowing the true factors and causes that make,or can make, us healthy or ill,sane or mad,sad or happy...There are many hazards in our "modern" world to our health,with it's air polution,the products of chemical industry,the quality of food we buy in Supermarkets,the water we drink ,the drugs prescribed by the doctor, etc. The best way to overcome them is with knowing the truth! The truth about what can ,really,harm us and what can make us well and happy!.......... I don't believe in falling in love from the first sight and distinguish between "falling in love" and "love"! I believe in falling in love from the second sight ,and by this i mean that after you've got to know the real ME,(and by "ME" i mean ,here,all my true feelings,thoughts,opinions,attitudes,beliefs,needs,principles and wants,which exist in the deepest levels of my mind;my character ),and i've got to know the real YOU,and we ,both,will like what we have found deep inside each other ,and ,by this,become very real to each other ,there is a good chance that we'll fall in love with each other as spiritual beings,because the real love is not between the bodies ,but between spiritual beings,and falling in love,only,with someone's pretty and attractive body(without,really,knowing this person character,and who he is very deep inside) doesn't ,really,mean falling in love! There is a difference between love and falling in love! I admit that i can fall in love with someone's pretty face,pretty smile ,pretty eyes ,pretty lips,pretty...(let's don't forget there are other,no less attractive,women's body parts we,the men, can fall in love,too! ),but only ,after ,really,getting to know this person's inner world ,true tone level and how,truely, ethical he is , i will know if i,really,love her and, really,want to be very close to her in all the meanings of the word! ... I don't imagine,to myself, my life with another person in any other way than the life of quality communication and sharing what is deep inside of our inner worlds. I don't believe that it is possible to be very close with one another when you feel that there are things (from your past or present;some of your "sins", "transgressions", " dark secrets" ,"affairs" ,"unfinished businesses or relationships" etc. ) that you must conceal ...or she conceals from you. Any relationship with another person ,or persons involves agreements between you and them . Agreements about what is proper and what is improper. When these agreements are broken,when we break the codes of honour,honesty,trust,fidelity,mutual support,etc., it destroys our relationship with another! From the other side,when we keep these codes and agreements ,when we keep our word ,don't lie etc. - our relationship thrivies! ...In other words,everything we do in our relationships with others can or promote,or destroy these relationships,and we must be aware of this!... This is what i want in my relationship with woman whom i want to choose as my life partner and as my friend:i want to share with her my whole inner world(my past,my present,my future; my true feelings,beliefs,attitudes,opinions about everything; my most cherished dreams;goals,intentions,desires; my true needs; my ideals, the principles by which i live by) And i want life parner who wants to share with me her whole inner world! It is because one of the things that i want in my life with my life partner is very high level of intimacy and understanding between us! Acting in life as "WE" ,sharing with each other our most cherished dreams and desires ;inspirng each other to reach these dreams;and,when these dreams are reached,to inspire each other toward creating and reaching new ,most impossible and most challenging dreams; keeping the level of communication ,agreements and understanding between us as high as possible! ... Don't misunderstand me about what i,really,mean! What i,really,want is relationships in which we don't hide our actions,as well as our feelings and thoughts,from each other; look at life in the same direction,as it relates to our ideals,dreams,beliefs and principles,have(or develop) many common interests,and many common likes and dislikes, love each other, willing to learn and understand each other better , and do this spontaneously by communication based on high level of affinity, honesty, sincerity and trust!... .The willingness to lift the curtain and let somebody peek at the inner you is ,certainly, an invitation to intimacy,and it's one that many people are very timid about offering.If we reveal our real selves ,point out the location of our soft spots,we're afraid we'll look foolish,mean,or even perverted,and we'll lose the respect of our partner and friend...I am very special person ,from this point of view ! I don't afraid to lift the curtain and let somebody,with whom i want the relationships of true friendship, peek at the inner ME !...I don't afraid to reveal my real Self ,point out the location of my soft spots etc... I don't afraid to reveal FULL TRUTH about myself !...And i don't afraid that somebody will "punish" me for being fully honest and sincere! ... One of the reasons that many people afraid to communicate with each other , on the deep level of full trust ,honesty and sincerity, is because they know : they can be punished for telling the truth ,so ...they prefer not to tell the full truth ,or lie to each other ,to avoid confrontation with full truth!...Here is an example : ( from the book "Miracles for breakfast" by Ruth Mishull ) : " Little Abercrombie is playing on the beach. He comes up to Mother and says, “I hit that girl on the head.” ... If Mother is very wise, she will say, “Thank you for telling me that.” That’s all. If Mother is typical, she will say, “Why, you naughty boy.You must never hit little girls. You’re going to get a spanking for that!”... Abercrombie gets the message. Not that he shouldn’t hit little girls . He already knew that! What he learned was this: “I mustn’t tell my Mommy when I do something bad ’cause I’ll get spanked!" ... So this Mother inadvertently takes one of the first steps in making it unsafe for her child to talk to her. Soon he will start “withholding.” He will not tell anyone about his misdeeds!... If you kick the dog every time you come in the door, the dog will soon learn to hide when he hears you coming in the door. If you punish a child for communicating, he learns to stop communicating! ") ...Very important part of my relationship with my life partner is full honesty and trust!The word "trust" comes from the German word “trost” which means comfort. Trust is having the confidence or faith in another person to do what they say they will do. It means believing in the honesty and the reliability of that other person.The Oxford Dictionary defines trust as “a firm belief in reliability, honesty, veracity, justice, strength of a person or thing or as belief that someone is honest and will not harm you, cheat you etc. When you trust a person, you believe that they have your best interest at heart. They wouldn't do something to hurt you for the fun of it, or for selfish gain. You rely on them...When we know well another person and his true position on an emotional tone scale ,we know trust him or not,we know if he(she) deserves our trust or not! We know what is ,really,on his mind:his true intentions toward us,others,himself;his true thoughts and feelings...We know ,from our experience with him and from our observations as he behaves toward others,if he ,always,keeps his word,lies or telling the truth,keeps or breaks agreements with other people; is reliable for sharing our secrets , can be given our credit card number ,or our life ,health(the doctors),property,possessions in his hands. Another thing that i consider very important in life is learning life's lessons , learning from mistakes,because if i don't learn from them and improve my ways as the result ,i don't progress in life! One of the main things we want to get in life are RESULTS,but not everything we do helps us to get the results we want,so...there is a need to learn from experience and improve our ways... What is my image of my ideal life partner? Which qualities do i want to find in her? - An admiration for many things,and ,between them,music( i have written which kind of music),real beauty, good poetry,quality movies, great literature ,nature,children,people,sharing of deep ideas and feelings,honesty,sincerity, flowers,classical ballet,great art and paintings... I want a woman who is competely honest,sincere,loyal,responsible,romantic,intelligentl,musical,tactful,courteous,communicative,enthusiastic about life,interested in others, and helping them, more, than being interesting..., have survival skills such as driving licence,good job,competency in what she does in life.....Woman who doesn't needs laws,rules or policies to force her to be honest...She enjoys hearing and passing on good news ,ideas,inspiring concepts and solutions...Enjoys talking ,but,equally,is able and willing to listen... Has a natural instict for fidelity and constancy-the desire for monogamistic relationship...She deeply enjoys learning , studying and exploring all her life! She enjoys good sense of humour and the spirit of play.Loves to laugh and share.She don't likes being in a rut and feels best when she is creating,learning and growing.She is looking for a man who is able to be her best friend .A man who knows himself well and is confident in his abilities and value.A man who enjoys to learn and is open to new things and experiences. A man who understands that relationships, as life itself, to grow, is something that needs to be created,every moment, and the moment we cease to create it ,it starts to decay.A man who is able to know the truth when he sees it !I ,clearly,understand that in real life it's impossible that everything will be very close to ideals,and, don't forget, all the qualities i have described are about my ideal life partner, but...in real life, there are real women, no ideal! Some of them can have many qualities that i have described about my ideal life parner, but, in no way, all of them!... For this reason, i don't set any limitations or conditions on you! You can be,completely different from the picture of ideal life partner i described here!...Of course there are qualities that attract me in women ,both, physical , mental and spirituall,and other qualities which repel me from them: ,i am attracted to young women,or,more exactly,to the qualities of youth, that are in women,regardless of their age...Tall women attract me more than full women...Completely healthy women more than not completely healthy..There is the factor of intelligence: the more she is intelligent ,the more she attracts me...If a woman smokes i prefer that she will do it not in my presence...I don't love critical women...Are we enjoying to communicate with each other?- It is,too,critical factor..But, really, the factor of the attractiveness of a woman for me is very relative factor! Why?- Because , in your essence , you're a spiritual being! Women who are on the highest levels of emotional tone scale are much more attractive to me than the women in the lower bands of it,regardless of their innate physical characteristics!. Admiration, high interest, enthusiasm, fascination ,the spirit of play etc. make women very beautiful in my eyes!...But most critical test of my relationship with woman is our communication ,and compatibility of our characters in our lives together! How easy we communicate and understand each other? How we feel ,when and after, we communicate ? Are our emotional tones and communication lags are matching? Does our lives together bring joy and happiness to both of us? What is the pleasure -pain ratio in our relationships? Somebody have said that most ideal pleasure-pain ratio is 85 percent pleasure and 15 percent pain,just to keep life more interesting!...Mutual love,degree of understanding,amount of joy and happiness , communication factor,honesty,ethics...-all these things are very important in family life!...Some women miss many good men by putting limitaions on them,by saying, to example that they will accept them only if they'll love this or that : animals ,travels etc. Will be this or that: athletic, rich etc. Wll do this or that. Have this or that... O.K!...,but I don't put any limitations and conditions on YOU! I am willing to accept you as you are ,without limiting you in any way : be with me the way you're! Believe in what you believe .Do what you do! Love what you love!...But ,please,don't put any limitations and conditions on me ,too,by accepting me,only if i'll do this or that; belong to this group or that,believe in this or that etc. ..The best things in life are free!...The best relationships are relationships in which, both parties, aren't trying to control , limit or "change" each other in any way! Otherwise these are the low tone relationships! People who are,really,very high on the emotional tone scale accept you as you are, grant beingness to you ,and being with them is pure joy!They don't try to conrol or "change" you in any way!They are an experts of granting beingness to others!... There is a connecting bridge that can compensate for our differences ,and that is ...LOVE!(High toned love!) ...When this magic of LOVE , or as some call it - "chemistry" , begins to exist between YOU and ME, i am sure, we'll find the ways to become interested in what interests and close to each one of us!...A classic example : She never had interest in football , and he never had interest in philosophy,arts and poesy, but because football is what interests him ,and poetry is what she likes very much, both of them, in order to become closer to each other, develop sincere interest in the things that interest each one of them!...And, as Frenchman have said, "Appetite comes with eating. ...In one of the profiles of women (not here) i have read: " I see myself as a Seeker of the Truth of my purpose in this lifetime and the whole story of the human being on this planet..." ...I can tell ,the same,about myself,and,even,more: " I see myself,not ,only, as a Seeker of the Truth of my purpose in this lifetime,but as the Seeker of the Truth,as it relates to many of our lifetimes ,here on Earth,other planets and planes of existence... Truth is very important "commodity" for me,because,only by knowing the Truth,full Truth,can we become free!...It is a true paradox of our times: we have ,now,so much sure information about the nature of the universe,time,space,matter,our own bodies ,and,yet ,there is,still,enourmous amount of things we don't know the full truth about! ...We don't know full truth about the foods we eat,and how it relates to our state of health or illness;we don't know many things about our bodies and ALL of the things they need to function at their optimum level ; what can be harmful or beneficial to them,on the long run...We don't know the truth about the real causes of many"modern" diseases...We don't know the full truth about the functioning of our minds,and we don't know the full truth about ourselves as spiritual beings!..So,the direction,at least for me,is get to know,gradually,the full truth...Along the physical factors ,there are mental and spiritual factors ,the most of them are contained in the writtings of L.Ron Hubbard,and my purpose is to get to know them all ! Of course, to "know" sounds good,but the final purpose is to understand and apply,because,only,by properly understanding and applying what we know can we make the world ,and the future ,better,more happy and more promising!...Courage,persistence and mutual help,are very important in this journey,because we are all "in the same ship",though in very different parts of it!... Another important thing that we forget,sometimes, about this life is that LIFE is ,essentially, a CREATION! And we are,truely,the prime CREATORS of it, of it's quality,joy,magic,beauty,direction...The better our understanding of life,ourselves,others;the universe of matter,space,energy and time ;and the higher order universes of MIND and LIFE itself become,the better CREATORS ,CO-CREATORS and ACTORS of LIFE we become! ...And ,of course,life is a matter of CONTRIBUTION! It is what YOU contribute to any part of it!...Playing the game of life can be compared to playing the game of chess: when you play it with somebody who is far above you in talent and ability ,and surpass you in any way,or far below you in ability to play it well,you wouldn't enjoy it.You'll experience the most joy in playing the game of life when you'll play it with a partner whose ability to play it equals,or very close, to your's!
In one of the profiles of women (not here) i have read that she regards as her greatest accomplishments in life - pro-survival decisions..How exactly said!....Even that she is very young,she is very wise ,and I agree,with her,completely,about this! The road to eternity and total spiritual freedom lies through the pro-survival decisons we take and carry out into practice in our lives!...And, here, by "pro-survival decisons " i don't mean decisions carried on the personal basic -the, only, survival of Self,because,in reality, it isn't pro-survival decisons ,at all! ..To give you an extreme example, Hitler made "pro-survival" decisions ( he thought so in " Mein Kampff ") for the German race, but these "decisions" were decisions at the expense of survival of all other races of the world!...Survival of one person,one group, or few persons and few groups ,at the expense of all others, isn't , really, SURVIVAL, in the real sense of this word! When the things i do for my survival are beneficial ( and not detrimental) not, only, to mine, but to yours ,others ,and all other areas of life that support our lives in the direction of better survival of all - this is SURVIVAL in it's true sense!...
..Most of the people look at this life,and talk about it in the terms of one lifetime.They ask: "Where do you see yourself five years from now,ten years from now,twenty (or fifty) years from now?"...I look at life in much broader perspective ,in the perspective of eternity... Looking at life in the terms of eternity and spiritual immortality, and understanding that we'll meet with one another in the future lifetimes ,"wearing" another bodies,and,perhaps on another planets ,or planes of existence,gives a very different perspective on what we do in present......What about high ideals such as true love, friendship,romance ,finding your soulmate,happiness,...? What about taking personal responsibility about what happens in our world and what will happen in it at the near and distant future?... What about helping to make this world more sane,more healthy ,more fair?... What about making this life more enjoyable,more interesting,more understandable,more livable for all? ...I will tell YOU what this all about! - It is about eternity!
I would define a spiritual experience as... :
Unearthy ocean of joy and deep happiness you find deep inside yourself! For me,it is feeling that i am not sepate from all of you,but we are all connected on much deeper level than the levels of matter,energy,space,time,life and death.On this deep level,we love each other ,and "love" implies wishing good for others. For me,spiritual experience is feeling of deep peace and certainty i feel about my own spiritual immortality and spiritual immortality of all of you...Love,in it's true sense,is spiritual experience,far above from the love for the bodies!...Finding your soulmate,and being sure that it is your soulmate -is spiriutal experience.Rising above the limitations of matter,energy ,space and time -is spiritual experience! Having full certainty about the existence of the Supreme Being -is spiritual experience! Feeling high affinity for other people- is spiritual experience.Being aware about the existence of something of not material nature :spiritual beings;other(Theta) worlds; love; happiness etc. -is spiritual experience!
